Goodbye Aunty Tini...

I'm very sorry to my readers. This is actually the first time i have expressed so much anger in my bloggin post. In fact, this is the 1st post that i have blogged bout my anger. Do not be repelled by this post, coz i am still the same Aaron!

I hope you will understand why am i so so frustrated, angry and upset about this. Hearing it everyday, and being able to do anything about it.

I guessed it finalised... Aunty Tini will be going back to Indonesia in July. She told me that this is not a holiday, but to go back for good. Listening to my aunty scolding her all the time really makes my blood boil! I guess it's better for her, coz i think she had enough of the psychological harm she has gotten.

Blog is all about free expression of how to feel right?
So yup!
Here goes!

I cannot think of a better word, but HATE my aunty SO FUCKIING MUCH! I really cannot stand the way she treats Aunty Tini. Scolding her all the time, over the slightest things. SHE bosses aunty tini around all the time and tells her to do this, do that, and not even saying a word of thank you when ever she has done it.

I feel that people should always be appreciated and respected no matter how old, what religion are they from, what country they originate from etc...

I really hate it when people look down on others, just because you "THINK YOU ARE BIGGER IN RANKING" then others. Being a domestic helping in the house doesn't make you any less of a person, and YOU do not have to treat them as thou they are someone who is lousy and scold them all the time over the slightest things...

One example i can never forget is when YOUR husband came to Popo's house, and wanting to drink tea, YOUR husband asked Aunty Tini to make cup for him. YOUR husband went out of the house to do some stuff, and will be back for the cup of tea later. Half way when Aunty Tini was making the tea, YOU came into the house, and started scolding her, saying that "THIS IS POPO'S TEA, WHO SAID YOU CAN TOUCH? YOU BUSY BODY IS IT?" And started scolding and scolding and scolding, i was up stairs surfing the net when i could not stand the yelling and rubbish she was scolding Aunty Tini over. I went down to see what was happening, and i saw YOU standing up right infront of Aunty Tini, with less then an arms length pointing at her face, asking her to SHUT UP! I can remember it so clearly coz you keep repeating it, a total of 4 times while Aunty Tini was tryin to explain to you why she made the Tea.

You are really a horrible person. Why must you treat others like that? Why don't you see it yourself? The reason why you have no friends at all, the reason why you keep changing jobs, the reason why you can't get along with ANY of your colleagues at all. Is all because of your FUCKING STINKING ATTITUDE. You do not have respect for others! You look down on people and take advantage of them because you know that you cannot do it on anyone else. I really hate you so much for that. If you do this to your other people, i do not even care at all! But the reason why i even bother to blog this out is because you are doing it on Aunty Tini, our domestic helper who came all the way from Indonesia wanting to earn money in order to send back home, and support her family. Away from her son who has grown up so much sinced the first day she came to Popo's house. Aunty Tini showed me pictures if Kwatpriyato her son, and after 7 years, he has changed and grown so much. I really feel sad for Aunty tini coz she didn't really have the chance to watch her son grow up, instead be in Singapore and lead such a life.

Imagine being scolding everyday, over the slightest matter. No only that, SHE goes around telling other people in the family that you are a horrible person, brain washing everyone, making everyone be on YOUR side and dislike Aunty Tini as well. At night before YOU go back to your house, you will sit beside Popo and COMPLAIN about your life, how disgusting your colleagues are at work, COMPLAIN about Aunty Tini, keeping telling Popo that Aunty Tini is bad, not a good domestic helper and she cannot be trusted at all.

My grandma is getting old, and i really mean old. Honestly, her brain is not functioning well nowadays, and YOU keep inputting negative thought into her brain every night before she sleeps. As years past, i can see Popo's relationship with Aunty Tini becoming worst, following your footstep, scolding her over small matters and finding fault over the slightest matter of "Not knowning that there is a mosque in Tampines" YES!!! Aunty Tini wanted to take a bus and alight to change to another. Popo told her that you can drop at the Mosque near Tampines interchange. Aunty Tini was wondering where was it and asked where is it. Because of that question, Popo started scolding her saying that staying in Singapore for so many years, you do not know where is it? Keep scolding her in a very Guai Lan tone. Congrats to YOU! CONGRATS for transforming my grandma to be like YOU.

Imagine when you're ironing the clothes. and someone standing right next to you, inspecting every thing you do, and anything that she think you have done wrong, would start scolding and reprimanding you, saying that you're good for nothing, teach you also don't know.

Imagine you are being ordered to not close the door when you are alseep at night, coz SOMEONE wants to check on you, making sure you are not doing anything wrong behind her back.

Imagine all these happening to you? Yes you! Who ever who has been so patient to read this long post all the way till this sentence. Being treated like this in a foreign country, and not being able to express yourself to anyone, because you do not have any chance to get out of the house. You cannot talk to anyone about this, especially in the family. Ending up crying yourself to sleep on certain nights. At times i go home late from training, and have to pack my stuff for the next day, i have to go into Aunty Tini's room to get my clothes for tml, i hear Aunty Tini quietly crying
herself, sniffing her nose.

WORST OF ALL?!?! YOUR ARE NOT EVEN PAYING THE SALARY! IT'S MY MUM WHO IS DOING IT! AND MY MUM DOES NOT EVEN ASK AUNTY TINI TO CLEAN HER OWN HOUSE! BUT YOU ASK HER TO DO IT FOR YOUR HOUSE!

Another thing that you are best in is acting. You are so hippocritical!
I REALLY CANNOT FUCKING STAND YOU!!!!

ANY relative that has came to visit Popo, you will be there to talk ever so nicely and "Por" the person saying all the nicest things in the world to them. But once they stepped out of the house, it is like an immediate change where you will suddenly whisper to my grandma's ear saying that this relative like to hao lian blah blah blah....

I've seen you done it countless times! You even done it on Cheryl before you FUCKING BITCH! Why do you even want to talk bad about Cheryl? What has she done to you? FUCK YOU!! I REALLY HATE YOU! And you act as though you have done nothing, putting on your fake smile when ever you see Cheryl saying "Hello Cheryl"

FUCK OFF!


There are so many things i wanna type out and show the whole world how disgusting YOU can be. But I actually feel so mentally tired from typing this post. You have made me hate something so much, made me feel somthing that i have never felt before. You are the 1st and last person i hate on earth and i will never forgive what you have done to hurt others in order to make yourself feel better.

~Noraa's thought of the day!!!
You made me hate you so much!


~Noraa Out!